Written by Dr. Eric Perry Image Credit: Pixabay It saddens me to hear people refer to themselves as being damaged. They speak about themselves as if …You Are Not Damaged
Bring in the New Year happy and whole! Let go and let God.
Life is too short to hang on to things that we can’t change.
People are dying every day. So let’s focus on the LOVE and FORGIVENESS.
God taught me to love with a pure heart. It didn’t happened over night. I had to process my emotions and feelings by writing them down.
Writing down the pain of the person that you trusted with your heart, love and apart of your life. With God we can forgive them.
I am willing to forgive. You know forgiveness is for ME.
Think about it. As long as you hate or hang on to unforgiveness. It’s like a prison for you. Meaning your happiness and joy stop.
The Process…Think about it?
We must find the love, the courage to forgive them. When you forgive them, only to free yourself. When you forgive them it is not only pleasing to God but it will be pleasing to you as well. We must live our life to do good and that same goodness will one day come back to us. Don’t worry it will find you.
It’s also wise to forgive when you have children together. Children love unconditional, with that being said your children will love the abuser anyway. Please never talk bad about the other person. Your children will find out in other ways.
What happens…..When you forgive:
1. You free yourself
2. You don’t feel anger or hate when someone bring up their name.
3. The thought of them, don’t mess you up inside.
4.Effect your day.
5. When you can stand to face them and be great.
6. Hear their voice. Remember what happen without the pain.
7. You feel love and then you want to continue to share that love.
8. You tell others, so they can be feel to love too. After all, sharing is caring!
You must forgive everyone that hurt you. When you’re able to forgive, that’s when you’re healing process begins. Once your start you’re healing process, yes, it will hurt at first. Each day will get better and better.
Then you will grow and discover the love and beauty within you. Like a beautiful butterfly, blossoming flower, or praise dancing or Like a boy becoming a man.
I telling you this process because I lived with my abuser so many years and I have forgiven him and myself. Forgiveness is so beautiful and its a gift you give yourself. Forgiveness is Victory
Define what is forgiveness? Forgive, forgiveness is to give up resentment of or claim to requital for an insult. Merriam-Webster Dictionary
Please read what the Bible say about Forgiveness in a Biblical article.
Forgiveness is letting go of hurt and pain.
Thanks for reading and come again.
I AM Worthy
It is very important that we make a difference. And that difference is showing love. What Legacy will you leave for others to follow?
Speaking from experience, I learned being positive in everything you do and say will promote Empowerment for healthy life. If that mean forgive my abuser then I forgive.
Remembering Love doesn’t have to hurt. And I think my abuser is hurting and he took it out on the person closest to him.
What’s in a man’s heart, so is he, which I find this statement to be true. Whatever is going on in the inside of you will come out or show on the outside. What difference are you making in the lives of others? What Legacy are you leaving or setting for others to follow?
The Keys to Empowerment:Forgiving your abuser
- Think positive
- Surround yourself with positive people
- Have a forgiving heart
- Make a difference
- Give your money, time, and resources to others.
- Learn and teach a life skill, like sewing, difference language, tutoring
- Knowing when to be quiet
- Listen to others
- Stop judging
- If you wasn’t an eyewitness then don’t share it or tell others
- Let everything you do and say line up with God.