Today, I am whole. Ladies, you can do it too. My story, my journey, and my healing to empower others.

Once you start loving you and realize that God loves you. When you know yourself and love you then you will only accept being treated with respect, loving care, and cherished.

You will be okay with being alone taking care of you emotionally, mentally, and physically.

I love reading, writing, and designing different projects.

When I interact with others I want them to see and feel the love of God.

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Hello Family and Friends, Good morning!

Become whole means feeling secure, confidence, and peace from within.

Today, I can say that I am Whole. We can overcome any thing we put our minds to, including domestic violence and emotional abuse.  It takes Determination.  I did it!  Now I am safe, having joy and peace.

Believe me it didn’t happen overnight. Healing physical scars was one thing, but healing emotional scars took a lot longer.

 I cannot promise the road to overcoming abuse will be easy or the process time will be short but with support, knowledge and determination you can do it too.  What I can promise, is that you can do it if you try. 

If it never get dealt with, then the cycle of abuse continues.  Only when the cycle of abuse is broken, ended then healing comes. 

God is the true Healer.  You are Awesome, amazing and worth it. So take control of your life.

Tips that work:

Listen-practice active listening when someone shares their story of abuse with you.

Repeat back what you think you heard them say to you without judgement.

Focus on supporting and have love for them because abuse is difficult and confusing.

Encourage them to be around positive family and friends.

Pick up a book, hobby, or class.

Remember trouble don’t last always, joy does come in the morning.

That’s empowerment. And remember to pass love. knowledge, and encouragement on to someone else.

All the best,

Grace girl, Denise M. Hardnett

“Love Doesn’t Have To Hurt”

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14 thoughts on “I AM WHOLE

      1. I was in domestic violence shelter from 10 months, I just moved to my new place a week ago. And 3 days back came to know that he is back illegally. He has all criminal charges against him.

      2. At the shelter did you attend support groups or talk to a mentor?

        Make sure that you are talking to a trusted friend to keep your important documents, have a safety plan and plan what you are going do.

        I will pray for you. Please protect yourself.

    1. Good morning and how are you? It helps when you teach each day with prayer, affirmations, and good thoughts.

      Get a protective order to help take you safe. Take different ways home. Let trusted people know what you are going through.

      God bless.

      1. Good morning friend
        I am doing better. I got protective orders and divorce together. But these kind of people are master manipulators, they try different ways.
        I am sharing everything with the people I trust. Writing gives me hope and reflection of life, it tells me how far I have come in search of peace. Sending lots of love and hugs ❤

      2. Look at God, that’s wonderful. Yes they are very tricky. But not better than Jesus Christ.

        Yes, your peace and joy comes from you knowing you are protected and covered by Grace.

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