God is love, the true Healer. I don’t think God wanted us to continue to accept and live with someone hurting us, which is domestic violence. When I was with my abusive ex-husband, he always said, “If I loved him, I wouldn’t leave him or if I was a real Christian I would stay by his side.”
Yes, I realize we will go through things in a relationship like pain, sorrow, loss along with joy, peace, love and happiness. Because that is life, but we can control suffering at the hands of our abusers. There is help and we can take back our lives-take responsibility to change our life for our children and ourself. Love Doesn’t Hurt, read 1 Corinthians 13:4,5,6,7,13
4 Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. 13 And now these remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
The Bible is the truth.
Our abuser beat and attacks us for control and that is the time when they are in the most control. Please know that love is not insecure, neglect, angry and mean. We though our abusers loved us and we truly loved them and somehow wanted to change them. But the truth is, they have to change themselves, just like you have to change you. We confused those feeling for love, now we know it was fear, lack of love, hurt. Because Love Doesn’t have to Hurt. Love Doesn’t have to Hurt Inspirational guide for Women in domestic violence coming out October 2015 please look out for it.
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